How to Pick Up a Woman
So, you want to know how to pick up a woman? Since this is obviously the case, the first thing you should understand is that 99% of the male population has no idea how to do this.. so good for you. You must first understand the first thing to know about approaching women and how to attract a woman is not some inherited gift, it can be learned.
Yes, ths skill can be learned just like any other skill; by way of consistent practice, taking time to figure out what is and is not working. But, if you become too lazy to go through the painstaking of trial and error, here are three great tips which will help you learn how to pick up a woman…
First: Go Fishing Where the Fish Are
Of course this sounds like simple advice when it comes to learning how to pick up a woman, but most guys still make the mistake of trying to approach a woman in places where the competition is really high. Some example places include bars, night clubs…all of the places where a woman will go and be hit on by at least 50 guys a minute while they’re just trying to hang out with friends.
Sure, those places are great if you want to get a ton of pratice, but you’re honestly not going to get a lot of quality results. But, if you start to approach women at unsuspecting places such as parks, coffee houses, bookstores, libraries, etc… you will quickly find that there is a LOT less competition and therefore women don’t have their “pick-up line radar” on.
Second: First Build Trust
One of the best secrets on how to pick up a woman is the ability to build trust quickly. So, how do you do this when it’s more than obvious that you’re approaching her for one reason and one reason only? It’s easy, don’t approach her until you’ve built up some trust already. A great example, if she’s sitting in a book store reading a book, sit in a chair near her. After some time, let her know that you’re going to the bathroom and ask if shecan watch your seat.
This simple act will subconsciously let her know that you trust her, and extending trust to people almost always encourages them to reciprocate that trust. And, of course when you get back, you can say thanks when you return, and she’ll probably be easier to approach.
One TIP: If you want some great results, try to make a joke out of it and say, “I’m heading to the bathroom, if anyone grabs my laptop, I need you to tackle them.” After this, it should be much easier to have a conversation wth her…and then comes the next step.
Third: Implement the “Gotta Go Close”
Once the conversation is going pretty well, pretend that you just got a text message from a friend of yours and that you “have to leave”. This kind of “interruption” creates the perfect opportunity for you to say, “Sorry, I have to go, but I’d like to continue this conversation at another time, what are you doing on xyz day?”
And yes, you’re asking for the date since the conversation was interrupted. But, you’ll still leave her with the sense that you’re notneed and that you have a life (with friends) and that the two of you still have some more things to talk about.
Practice these three strategies, and don’t forget knowing how to pick upa woman is a skill which can be learned with practice. Only after a few times, you too will be comfortable and all the guys will start asking you for advice on how to pick up a woman.