How to Approach a Woman
How to approach a woman? It always seems like the really gifted or brave men know how to approach a woman without looking like a fool. Have you ever wondered what it would feel like if you knew how to approach women, would that make the rest of our life easier? If so, you’re probably extremely frustrated if you haven’t yet to learned the gifted art of approaching a new woman. If this is you,then you should be excited to learn these simple steps on how to approach a woman…
Learn How to Have Women Approach You
First, You Must Know Where to Meet a Woman
The first key you must learn about how to approach a woman is knowing where you can meet them. You may have already learned that it is easier to meet a woman in some places than it is in others. A gym for example, it typically isn’t a good idea to meet a woman there. The same goes for trying to meet a woman in the grocery store or any place where they are handling tasks or business, and honestly don’t have time or want to chat.
But, always keep in mind that if you see a woman approaching that you really want to meet, and chances are you won’t meet her again, it’s always better to give it try than lose the opportunity. However, your chances of getting a positive response will be greatly increased if you go to places where women like to hang out, relax, chat and where they are open to meeting someone. Good examples are dog parks, coffee shops, book stores, clubs,etc.
Second, the Walk Away Approach
Most men go to fast and think they know how to approach a woman and think they can go straight from hello to getting her phone typed into their phone. There’s a big problem to this is that it comes off as needy, aggressive, and it let’s her think you are interested in her, but have no interests in really getting to know her. It’s better to make a brief approach or comment, get some type of response (hopefully good) and walk away or continue what you were doing before.
What does this do? Two things. First, it will show her that you’re not needy… and makes her wonder whether or not you’re interested in her, AND curiosity is easy to turn into interest. The second thing it does is gives you a chance to test out her response to you and see if you’re even interested. Make sense? So, once you have approached and walked away, it’s much easier to come back and talk to her again.
Third, Use the Observational Approach
If think you need a solid pick up line or routine to when learning how approach a woman, then, you have to think again. The best approach to any woman is a natural approach. This means that you have to become a master of observational conversation starters when meeting people. I like to think of seing the other person as your best friend, it’s always easy to talk to your best friend.
It’s not as hard as it sounds, the real problem is that most guys don’t even bother to practice this skill until their dreamgirl walks by, then suddenly, they sound like a fool. You’ll never learn the skills of how to approach a woman if you only test your skills on odd occasions and with that type of pressure.
Therefore, practice observational conversaton starters with EVERYONE you can: guys, girls, old ladies, old men, waiters, cashiers, etc, you’d normally never speak with. This way, your conversation skills will be sharp, you’ll be comfortable, and when you finally see a woman you are attracted to, you’ll be the master of your game.
Like the saying goes: “Practice makes perfect.”
So, don’t forget, knowing how to approach a woman is not some magical thing or inherited trait. Like anything else, with a lot of practice, these three steps will help you master approaching a woman.